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You feel sadness, guilt, anger and recriminations due to the
end of your first marriage that can last for a lifetime. You then realize about
the responsibility for the divorce as well as the losses from it. Therefore,
you decided to make a move by taking the kids moving toward a better future for
them. However, are the kids prepared enough to move forward?
One of the several wonderful gains for adults is to fall in
love again and hoping for future together with the new partner. Planning with
your new partner as well as remarriage will help a lot. Therefore, you need to
consider it as a celebration for you and your children. However, it is also a
fact that remarriage is just one of the many reasons for being grief especially
when the kids have experience it before with their family losses. Many kids are
still suffering to the process even if the parents fall in love again and
wanting a new and better life. Therefore, having a new relationship won’t
really help the kids to be excited to blended family. So there are still things
you need to consider when it comes to your step kids.