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When it comes to being a step parent, there is no manual or
instruction available. Therefore, what kind of step parent you want to be in
your blended family is all up to you and how you are going to manage your own
agenda to carry it through. However, there are step parenting abilities failing
that you can hear and this is one thing certain in many cases.
You can observe these situations with those that are
remarried with someone that have kids from previous relationship. However, you
need to consider the fact that you are the only person that can define the
identity as a step mother or step father in blended family. It is still your
job alone to figure things about and to know what works best for you even if
there are situations where you are being pushed, pulled and manipulated. You basically
need to have a self-discipline and clarity to define yourself before you
proceed. However, you still need to consider the extent of your step kids or
partner even if you ignore the opinions of them as long as you are comfortable
about it. You can ask your friends from support when you want a way to making
your identity comfortable as a step parent in blended family. And if you don’t
know where to obtain help such as blended family advice, you can visit the
website of The Blended and Step Family Resource Center for more info. Surely,
you will learn the best way of making your blended family successful.
