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Sometimes, the step family is at risk due to manipulative
ex-spouse. Some of the things that can affect your blended family are when the
ex-spouse of your partner calls inappropriately just to ask for help or
sympathy in order to destroy your blended family relationship. If you let
manipulative ex-spouse enter your blended family, it can control it.
Basically, those manipulative people are those people
using any types of method to gain or obtain control from what they want. Ex-spouses
normally use these tactic especially those who haven’t moved on already. They are
using fear and guilt to their advantage that can turn your children against
you. A bitter ex-spouse can use psychological or emotional sometimes in order
to succeed to what they need.
You are basically affected also when you habitually allow
the unreasonable and selfish ex-spouse. This is essential to all step parents. Your
partner might not think about getting manipulated since he or she get used to
it when it was their time. When this thing arise, it is best to change the
situation by explaining the matters to your partner in blended family. This way,
you will get over the manipulative ex-spouse from affecting you and your step
family. And if you are in need of more specific and valuable information
regarding blended family, you can visit The Blended and Step Family Resource
Center. Surely, you will get the best advice for your blended family in order
to make it a happy and successful family.
