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There are several blended family parents that are normally
posting notes to the refrigerator or next to the phones to help them manage
with dealing their ex-spouse in positive and acceptable way. Notes are
essential if there are kids in the rooms or we are angry. The most important
factor you need to consider when it comes to communication is the welfare of
the children. This is normally the basis of good parenting. You will learn how
this is useful for your blended family.
Basically, you need to settle your children first in a good
place before dealing with your ex-spouse. This is the proper decision to make
it easier since you are removing your personal interest, anger and hurt. Your kid’s
welfare will always be the best criteria when it comes to decisions and
discussions.
Sometimes asking help from your ex-spouse if the best option
even if it feels to be awkward. You can phone your ex-spouse sometimes to pick
up the kids from school especially when you are jammed in traffic and your
blended family partner is busy. This shows how you respect him or her for being
a parent.
