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There are many people experiencing the situation of getting
along with their step kids to be harder as what they expected. Most of them are
reading blended families who spend time with their ex-spouses just to enjoy
holidays or vacations for the kids to have the continuity and stability. These parents
wanted to make their transition of their kids to live in step family easier.
However, you need to know if it is really necessary for you to be friends with
their mother.
Literally, no. However, you need to consider the feelings of
your kids first even if it is a no. If by doing allows your kids to cope faster
to the shared custody and to your blended family spouse, then you need to
consider it. You do not have to be
friends literally but you need to work together as co-parents. The best thing
for kids is to be able to manage a good communication and help them with
problem solving. This is entirely beneficial to the children.
